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Self-Respect & Child Respect: It's Not On Demand
Dinner’s about to be on the table and I yell for my kids to come sit down. I call for them once as I pile plates with my best attempt. Then I call for them again while catching my breath between cooling blows.
This Too Shall Pass
Those tough moments that trigger the perfect storm of personal thoughts and feelings, crashing into each other simultaneously. And it took that particular moment for everything inside you to explode.
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Psychotherapy Talk: The Gray Area of Wellness
Today there's a large spotlight on health and mental wellness. Wellness inspires self-realization and motivates action--in essence, it requires us to change and grow. Practicing wellness is wonderful.
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Let's Stop “Should've"
I absolutely loathe the world should. It's a horrible word, and I wish it would just go away. But it can't, and it won't. So, all we can do is not use it.
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Psychotherapy Talk: Are You Feeling Entitled?
Does your life look the way you wanted it to? Do you have the particular number of kids you’ve hoped for, the Prince Charming you’ve planned for, the friendships and career you’ve worked for? Is it just as you pictured?
When You Disagree in Parenting
"Being on the same team”; "standing as a united front”; “putting each other first.” Cultural phrases like these are thrown out there as parenting goals—emphasis on goals.
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Psychotherapy Talk: A Woman's Nature
Last night I sat around a table with two other girlfriends, eating and catching up on different parts of life like career, self, and motherhood while we tended to the four littles divided among us.
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Is Holistic Wellness Just a Collection of Good Habits?
COVID has changed a large variety of societal habits—consumer behavior; familial engagement; professional and educational. These changes came abruptly at quarantine’s onset, leaving no one—or no thing—as impact’s exception.
Rethinking Mindfulness
What is mindfulness? It’s just the state of being present. Being conscious. Having awareness of yourself as you are in the moment—aware of what you’re thinking, how you’re feeling, and what you’re doing.
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Psychotherapy Talk: Gratitude & Grief During Pregnancy
She slowly scanned the anatomy, verbally confirming a healthy baby as she went. This is my third pregnancy and third growing little, yet my nerves didn’t know the difference.
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Psychotherapy & Self Care: The Bigger Picture
When you need a break, feel depleted or would like a pick-me-up odds are it’s time for self care. What is it for you--a bubble bath, a night out with girlfriends, being alone in a book store?
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Your Day Of Thanksgiving
A year that began as any other is having quite the ending. But as with any year, the holiday season has the reputation of presenting the chance to reflect on how the year personally shaped us.
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Gifting Intentionally To Your Litt
Mamas, is there anything better than seeing your little overjoyed when opening a particular present you gave? This mutual satisfaction is priceless--they feel loved, as do you because of their gleeful heart.
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Psychotherapy Talk: Connecting Mindfulness to Memories
The holidays are among us and our attention is focused on making them memorable. We all would certainly like the year to leave us on a high note.
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Psychotherapy Talk: The Relationship Between You & Commitments
New Year resolutions and goals are for some, and not for others. With approximately half of people making some type of commitment yet less than ten percent keeping it longer than a few months, it shows us that we’re a malleable people whose desires and wants ebb and flow.
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Strengths & Weaknesses IV: Modeling Strengths & Weaknesses
Up to this point you’ve thought about your strengths. Your weaknesses. Where they came from; how and why they were evolved or kept hidden. This dive into self has probably not been easy—its required remembering the past and honestly looking at the present.
Strengths & Weaknesses III: Your Weaknesses
Shifting gears from what you’re good at, let’s look at our weaknesses, what we're not so great at. Your weaknesses—as a reminder—are your innate or learned capabilities that are not as developed as your strengths.
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Strengths & Weaknesses II: Your Strengths
Rather than simply accepting, embracing and going forth with our strengths, perhaps it’s important to consider why we develop some strengths more than others.
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Strengths & Weaknesses Series, Part I: Finding Them
This month, we’re delving into a strengths & weaknesses series that’ll offer insight on how to identify, use, and leverage strengths and weaknesses in relationships: the relationship we have with ourselves, our littles, and others.